"To acquire knowledge one must study, but to acquire wisdom, one must observe."
​-MARILYN VOS SAVANT 

HELPFUL LINKS relating to Divorce Mediation

​WEBSITES FOR USE DURING THE DIVORCE MEDIATION PROCESS

• ​Considerations in the Use of NJ Child Support Guidelines
• Factors to Consider in NJ Alimony
• Alimony FAQ
• Overview of NJ Equitable (Property) Distribution
• NJ Court Parenting Plan Publication
• Basic Parenting Plan Guide for Parents
• NJ Court Overview of Domestic Violence
• Listing of State of New Jersey Services
• Tax Considerations in Divorce
• Considerations for Insurance After Divorce
• Pension Evaluation Info
• FAQs About 403(b) Accounts
• Divorce Info Relation to Social Security
• Situation of Gains Tax on the Martial Residence
• College Savings Plans (529) After Divorce
• Imputed Income for Support Purposes
• Life Insurance and Divorce
• Divorce Care - Support Groups
• RAINBOWS Offers free support Groups for Children and Adults Grieving a Divorce
• Mortgage Calculator
• New Jersey Association of Professional Mediators
• College Education Costs
• College Costs for Children
• Child Sues Parents for College Education
• College Contribution: A Contrarian View
• Child Custody in New Jersey
• College Costs Calculator
• Financial Advisor - CPA
• Qualified Domestic Relations Orders (QDRO)
• What a QDRO Should Include
• New Jersey State Employee QDRO Information
• New Jersey Police & Firemen's Pension Fund
• New Jersey Pensions - Divorce & Civil Unions
• Dividing the 401(k) Account
• Employee Stock Options and Divorce
• How to Value your Vehicles
• How to Value a Small Business in Divorce
• Business Valuations in Divorce
• Double Dipping Asset & Income Source
• When Couples Divorce but Still Run a Business Together
• Credit Card Debt
• New Jersey Court Website

​REGARDING EMOTIONS AND DIVORCE

• ​Learn To Handle Your Emotions During Divorce
• Divorce: Understanding (and Surviving) Your Emotions
• Rebuilding after Divorce
• Emotions to Expect When Going Through Divorce
• Can I Really Be Friends with My Ex Spouse?
• How to Communicate With Your Ex if You Have Children
• Negotiating Your Divorce Settlement
• Divorce Recovery: Releasing Toxic Emotions
• Narcissistic Negotiation
• Are You Dealing with a Narcissist in Your Divorce?
• Don't be Passive When Divorcing High Conflict Partners
• Borderline Personality & Divorce
• How to Rebuild Your Credit After Divorce
• Men in Divorce - The Heart and Soul of Divorce
• Divorce: Not the End, But a New Beginning​

​REGARDING CHILDREN AND DIVORCE

• ​Emotional Effects of Divorce on Children
• Children's Thoughts About Divorce
• How to Tell the Children about the Divorce
• Looking at Divorce Through the Eyes of Your Child
• Parenting Tips for Separated Dads
• Keeping Children Out of the Middle
• Helping Your Child Through Divorce
• How Parents Can Enhance Their Child's Adjustment to Divorce
• Good Kids in Tough Times: Discipline After Separation
• Helping your kids cope with the effects of separation and divorce
• Healing Hurting Hearts
• Dealing With Divorce: 7 Tips to Protect Your Kids
• Questions that Children often Ask about Dealing with Their Parents' Divorce
• It's My Life: Divorce - Getting the News
• An Exploration of the Ramifications of Divorce on Children and Adolescents
• Helping Infants and Toddlers Adjust to Divorce
• Child Development and the Effects of Divorce
• Explaining Divorce to Children
• Planning for the Holidays
• Divorce Mediation Study
• Divorce Matters: A Child's View
• Divorce & Special Needs Child
• Children's Reactions to Divorce of Parents
• The Role of the Father After Divorce
• Divorce: A Parents' Guide for Supporting Children
• Misunderstanding your child's emotional awareness after divorce - teens, too
• Dealing with Divorce and Separation: A Guide for Teens
• Teens Tell Their Story How Divorce Affected Them
• Effects of Divorce on Children
• Step Children and Divorce

​REGARDING anger management

• Controlling Anger — Before It Controls You
• Anger & Relationships
• Anger
• Anger management tips: Tame your temper
• Four Proven Techniques for Managing Anger
• Anger Management Parenting
• Anger Management for Children
• How To Control Anger
• Dealing With Our Anger
• Constructive Anger
• Pain, Anger, and Hurting Back
• Managing Children's Anger About Divorce
• Healthy Parenting Tip Sheet - Managing Children's Anger
• How Do I Keep My Anger From Hurting My Child?